We all know the expression: forgive and forget. Easier said than done! We often still carry a lot of disappointment, anger or sadness. Pain from the past is transferred to the people we are dealing with now. It sometimes seems `history repeats`.
Forgiveness is letting go of longing for a better past!
You probably have examples where you felt ‘Here we go again!’ What actually is happening, is that we get the chance to become aware of that pattern so that we can take the next step. Letting go!
That is what a forgiveness session is about. You can choose to face why you are repeating. Usually it has to do with expectation. You want something from the other person, who, for some reason, is not delivering! If you are honest with yourself and dare to recognize what actions you would have preferred, you can begin to see that you can wait a long time and hold on to your grouches… Or not! It is your responsibility to deal with disappointment and in return you can see the other person is responsible for his / her behaviour. This way you can use your energy much more constructively.
In a ritual, in which we look at your longing, you can express what you would have preferred and confirm that the other person is not living up to your expectations. Step by step I lead you through the process, until you begin to experience that you are liberating yourself.
Caroline’s coaching was crucial for my development. She felt flawlessly which methods to use to help me further. I came out of an impasse with that and a burden has fallen from me. I now feel free to express myself with my talents. Not only me but also my environment is grateful for her guidance. With her expertise, talents and life experience, Caroline is a very Good Life Guide!
I did not expect that I would go through so many emotions and personal growth. It is hard to imagine that I could get rid of so many sorrows and old patterns and that I could be more and more myself. I now know what my talents are and I know my mission, my goal. I would like to explain what it has done to me as a person, but words cannot fully explain the change that I have made. For me, the power of the talent play is not only in the game but also with you as a coach. I think it was an extremely good collaboration and therefore it was possible that the talent play really came into its own. I thought it was great to participate and I can certainly recommend it to others.
The last months have become só familiair with “my” ACIM-group. In the beginning it was a bit scanning, listening and try to understand where its all about in the book ‘A Course In Miracles’; its not I already understand everything but slowly I’m starting to understand, to feel the messages. But not as a last resort: to familiarise myself. I would also add that I combine the meetings of ACIW and ZEN.nl; both of these views corresponds for me. Every time the meetings with Caroline are very special: for example to discuss with eachother how to live in the here and now and how these meetings create new insights. Especialy the (non)dualistic aspects clarifies me and I’m aware that they are present in my everyday-life! No matter how difficult the contents of this book -for most of the group- , Caroline can show us her knowledge to let us understand the essence of it.